An Open Relationship
End of a relationship or the beginning of a whole new lifestyle.
A person’s character is like a book. If you find it interesting you might want to read a little more. Chapter after chapter, Year after year. Now imagine you’re an old person, and you have read only one book in the last 35 years. How would you feel?
For the people who don’t understand what defines an Open Relationship. It is when a couple is loyal to each other but allows one another to have a sexual relationship with other people they find attractive.
Now tell me what is loyalty?
Being in a relationship and sleeping around behind your partner’s back, enjoying the thrill of getting caught, or being in a unique relationship and taking a girl home that you’ve met at a bar, maybe you’ll be lucky enough to have them both.
Bisexuality is recommended to be in An Open Relationship but it is a topic for another day.
Now you might think I will take a girl home but what if she brings a guy home?
How would I feel then?
Usually, men expect women to be loyal to them but they don’t do the same. But that is just unfair.
I will accept the concept of an open relationship and welcome him to my bedroom and share her wildness with that lucky person. If either he or I am uncomfortable with sharing. I would simply give them space and walk away.
That reminds me of rules, of course, there will be rules. For example, when bringing a girl home, if she’s interested in a threesome take her home otherwise take her to a hotel room. Another example is always using protection and never falling in love with a nightstand because there is only one person you share your mind with.
Usually, people say, to share your “heart with” but I will say “mind with”. If you find someone like-minded, nothing is better than that.
At first, I thought Open Relationships are very uncommon but the more I talked to people about it the more people I found who are not just interested in being in An Open Relationship but they were already in one. We would like to keep it a secret because of the so-called society, most said.
Open Relationships are for extremely open-minded people, so how open-minded are you? Even if you’ve been in An Open Relationship. Would you accept your children, siblings, or even your parents to be in a relationship like this one?
Being in An Open Relationship, handling all the emotions, jealousy, and temptations is not hard but the toughest part would be to find someone who thinks the same as you and will be loyal to you even after seeing more attractive, rich, and successful people on daily basis.
If you still believe spending your whole life with one person is the best. That’s your choice, but ask yourself. Is your partner is going to do the same?
If yes, for how long?
